Ok, I need some Facebook advice. Is there a waiting period for friending someone on Facebook? Like, if I met someone at a meeting or during a conference or at the bar, at what point can I request their friendship? Is it the same on LinkedIn?
In the interest of intellectual pursuit, let’s review some precedent. Gun laws mandate a seven-day waiting period. That’s really more for weeding out the lunatics, but I think there’s some merit: If you have to wait seven days, your immediate need for gratification will wane. Probably a good thing. Applications for the Facebook world? I suppose such a waiting period would help cut down on the people who friend absolutely everyone with no discretion.
Next precedent: Romantic interests have a traditional three-day waiting period before calling after a date. Perhaps it worked well for our parents, but my Gen Y cohorts and I have full schedules and limited attention spans; raised on the 24-hour news cycle, we need feedback fast, so I’d say that waiting period is out the door. And even so, the three-day rule isn’t quite analogous, since a phone call means a conversation, which could mean another date. A Facebook invite, on the other hand, could mean an acceptance and that’s it.
So I want some rules. Anyone have any experience to offer? When is too soon to friend? When is it too late? And do any rules cross into other social media like Twitter and LinkedIn?